The Real Community at the Community Pool

As a kid growing up in Massapequa, you couldn’t keep me out of our backyard pool. It was the nexus of all our hot summer days, as my family owned the only pool in our known universe. Friends and relatives alike enjoyed the refreshing waters for many summers.

Once High School became a thing for me, my friends sometimes coerced me into visiting the Community pool just down the road at Marjorie Post Park. Besides a deep-diving pool, a snack bar, and a little independence, the community pool provided something my little 18-foot-round backyard pool never could.

Girls.

We spent a lot of time over the next few summers alternating between TOBAY beach and the pool. Before I knew it, my father had decided to dismantle our little slice of heaven in the backyard.

Once we became homeowners (and parents), we erected our backyard pool, which was very popular with our kids and their friends. Then, one day, we installed central air conditioning, effectively ending the use of our pool.

A few years ago, I made my way back to our community pool, reacquainting myself with its delights and charms. But with work and avoiding the crowds on weekends, my time was limited to just a handful of trips after work (the pool closes at seven). Now that I’m retired (and have way too much free time on my hands), I’ve been making my way there way more often. The water is clean, clear, and refreshing, although not heated.

Many retired people have been selling their homes and downsizing into communities with pools at their fingertips. Although I don’t think I’m too far behind them in that aspect, our Town pool has a lot of community itself.

One of the lures of community life for seniors is the on-property pool and facilities. There is nothing for you to do other than show up and dip your toes into the water.  No chlorine, filter, vacuuming, fuss, or muss. Of course, it may be on the property, but it’s not your backyard. You still have to get there to enjoy the amenities.

Just like we travel to our community pool at Marjorie Post.

The Town of Oyster Bay offers a deeply discounted season pass for resident seniors, allowing unlimited access to the pool you registered with (there are four to choose from). Without a season pass, it’ll cost seniors just four bucks each visit. The Marjorie Post facility boasts three separate pools, including one for deep diving and an isolated, fence-protected area for toddlers. The huge main pool is one of the few that offers a strictly enforced “adults only” section. The grounds provide plenty of lounge chairs and space to spread out.

Many young lifeguards watch their areas intensely, keeping everyone safe. Some parents with kids of all ages come prepared with coolers, while others bring takeout (like pizza or KFC). They camp out near the rear of the property, where picnic tables are located under sun-shading covers. Making the necessary trip to the snack bar with kids in tow, everyone returns with something, be it ice cream or cotton candy. Showers and changing areas are also provided.

Since becoming a pool regular this season, I met a small, tight-knit group that gathers almost every evening. They come prepared with snacks and fruit, but more importantly, they come prepared to hang out.

Just like we did as kids.

This group of Massapequa neighbors, mostly retired seniors, has been together and enjoying each other’s company for over 15 years. One was a retired lifeguard, another an aspiring cook. They come from all walks of life, sharing war stories, sunblock, and lots of laughs. Some take a dip in the water, while others choose just to relax.

While gathering in the water, discussions revolve around politics, movies, music, and sports. Plans are made to attend some of the free concerts in town. Sometimes, a few members break free early to make dinner or catch a movie. Either way, it’s never goodbye, only a quick “See you later.” And they most certainly will, as long as the weather holds out the next day.

That’s what this community is all about.